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Spend 10,000 Hours Getting “Good” at Marriage

12.23.2009

In short, evidence suggests that if you want to be really good at something, really successful at something, you need to put about ten thousand hours of work into it, before your efforts bear real fruit. This seems to be true whether we’re talking about computers…or making art, fixing cars, laying tile, or getting a [...]

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Hello, My Name is…

09.29.2009

When I started the marry blogger, I was unsure if I should use my real name. There were a handful of reasons why: *I didn’t know if I had anything to add to the “marriage conversation” *I was insecure about my blogging skills *I was insecure about me and my hangups and if I could [...]

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How the Mind Works

09.07.2009

I just wrapped up a big audio project for the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association (This post isn’t about THAT – but if you would like to hear the audiocast – you can go here to listen). While I was producing-editing-voicing-writing the piece, I was surprised at what my mind was doing. How it Happened Here’s [...]

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